Purposefully Influence for Good
Sociologists say we will influence or be influenced by 10,000 people in our lifetime. 1 I wonder if that’s true.
But think of those who do influence us— relatives, friends, teachers, preachers, neighbors, doctors, politicians, bosses, co-workers, salesmen, repairmen and many more. In turn, we have our own sphere of influence. People whose lives we touch.
Influencing is “the power to change or affect someone or something; to cause changes without directly forcing them to happen.” So, we can choose to influence for good, not bad; to help, not hurt; to serve, not abuse; to encourage, not discourage. “Live purposefully and worthily,” the Apostle Paul advised.
Jamie Buckingham, in writing to Christians, said: “Most of us don’t realize it, but our influence is much larger than we can imagine—and will continue for generations to come, be it good or evil. It’s a wonderful responsibility. Always remember though, Jesus is ever with you and His Spirit will whisper just the things you need to say and do.”(The Nazarene).
Maybe you would like to jot down ways other people or things have influenced and blessed you. Then recall ways you were a helpful influencer. Let’s thank God for those priceless occasions! Questions to consider:
- Who were the people you let influence you? Mentor, encourage, correct, advise, or teach you something? What lessons did you learn? What lasting words of encouragement do you cherish? Did you thank them?
- Who were those you influenced on purpose? You spoke into their life. Or helped them develop a skill. Or you just enjoyed sharing food, fun, and fellowship. But you invested time with them.
- Who were those you never knew but whose acts or achievements greatly influenced you? Who were the somebodies who wrote a book, painted a picture, composed music, taught you a lesson, preached a sermon, or did something so impressive you were profoundly touched? Do you have some heroes of faith? Why not share their stories?
Prayer: Father, bless those who have made a helpful and significant influence on me.
Scripture: “Look carefully then how you walk! Live purposefully and worthily and accurately, not as the unwise and witless, but as wise (sensible, intelligent people), making the very most of the time.” (Ephesians 5:15, 16a AMPC)
Quote: “When you live your life purposefully, you will live it powerfully! When you bring the God factor into your life, your life will go from natural to supernatural in the way it is lived.” (Michael R. Ellison, Vita Journal)
Excerpts from my book Cast Your Shadow: Influence On Purpose, available on Amazon
1.Footnote: John C. Maxwell, Developing the Leader Within You, p. 2.
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